There are many ways to get a man to do what you want. One, you can ask him nicely. Two, you can drop subtle hints until he figures out what the heck you want. Three, you can just put him down for anything he does wrong till he, maybe, does it right. Four you can completely complain about all the things he does wrong to everyone an still yell at him about what he does or doesn't do. (these don't work well)
A nagging wife, has yet to see the fruitfulness (sounds biblical I know) of a wife who uplifts her husband. The nagging wife will complain about what her husband hasn't done and she will complain it not only to him but to everyone. (not good for mans self esteem, hence the reason he probably isn't doing good in the first place)
See men need to at least think they are doing things right so they continue to try hard to do all you ask of them. They want to show off and be "superman" to everyone else but be "Clark kent" with their wives. So we can't talk poorly about them outside the home because it actually makes them be worse in our home.
We all know, behind a good man, there is a good women. Every good man will go back to his wife, sister, mother or friend to seek advice on what he is planning. (like I said a good man, not all do this but, are they good men) but being said, that good man has a good wife, sister, mother or friend who sits on the side lines, just watching him in his glory. Doesn't brag about the idea she gave him or how she made him be the way he is. Every good man knows this is true. They will boast about their wife, sister, mother, or friend. They will love them. They will do everything to be what that person wants or needs. Because they have had the same love shown to them.
So nagging wives. Stop talking to your husbands about the bath towels on the ground or the socks that never get put in the hamper. Stop nagging about the little things that really don't matter. Here is a challenge, the next time you feel yourself getting mad about something your husband does (that doesn't really matter) think of something good to tell him he did instead.
We all like hearing the good instead of the bad, and there is a time to talk about what "bad" there might be to talk about. But not everyday not every moment. Bring more good into your relationship then bad. It will do wonders for your relationship.
