Saturday, February 27, 2010
Date Night!
It is amazing how much of the week, gets us in a rut. All the daily routines, and life issues. But how nice it is to go on a date with your spouse, and feel completely refreshed the next day! Speaks volume!! Enough said!
Monday, February 8, 2010
Secrets!
Why is it that so many of us have our "secrets" we keep?
A little bit about me, I have never been good at keeping secrets. I always want to give away what a present is and hear what a surprise for me might be. But those are not the type of secret keeping I am talking about. No these are the ones we want to hide because they may make us look bad to others. Again, about me, I have always been the one pointing out the elephant in the room that everyone is trying to ignore.I am definitely more so now, but I think even when I was little I was like this.
My friends would complain about something in there life that was going wrong and everyone would console them while I was pointing out the reasoning behind it. No I don't tell others personal secrets or am I harsh when I know someone is hurting.
On the "Biggest loser" Jillian Micheals is always breaking the contestants down (in a good way) to make them deal with the secret issues they have. You see keeping stuff inside makes us do thing like eat our feelings, or drink them away, or anger easily, or worse.
As I have been writing, I have been dealing with some of those issues of my own. But I am now realizing that my issues are a reprocations of someone else's issues they never dealt with and are still denying. I have no idea how to deal with that. No I am not putting blame on anyone else for my issues, I just can't break threw with this person and it is hurting me.
So I end on this note. The thing you are dealing with, that you may not want anyone to know, might not as bad as you think, and by talking about it, might just make you feel better, and move forward from it! Hopefully this is not going to deep. :)
A little bit about me, I have never been good at keeping secrets. I always want to give away what a present is and hear what a surprise for me might be. But those are not the type of secret keeping I am talking about. No these are the ones we want to hide because they may make us look bad to others. Again, about me, I have always been the one pointing out the elephant in the room that everyone is trying to ignore.I am definitely more so now, but I think even when I was little I was like this.
My friends would complain about something in there life that was going wrong and everyone would console them while I was pointing out the reasoning behind it. No I don't tell others personal secrets or am I harsh when I know someone is hurting.
On the "Biggest loser" Jillian Micheals is always breaking the contestants down (in a good way) to make them deal with the secret issues they have. You see keeping stuff inside makes us do thing like eat our feelings, or drink them away, or anger easily, or worse.
As I have been writing, I have been dealing with some of those issues of my own. But I am now realizing that my issues are a reprocations of someone else's issues they never dealt with and are still denying. I have no idea how to deal with that. No I am not putting blame on anyone else for my issues, I just can't break threw with this person and it is hurting me.
So I end on this note. The thing you are dealing with, that you may not want anyone to know, might not as bad as you think, and by talking about it, might just make you feel better, and move forward from it! Hopefully this is not going to deep. :)
Sunday, January 31, 2010
My Peeps!!
As I said in my last blog, I am learning a lot about myself. Threw that there are good times and there are bad times.
The other day I had a bad time, and in it I was thinking, who can I call to make myself feel a little better. Then I realized I have my certain peeps, for certain times, and moods!!
There are the friends I call who will listen to anything and never judge or hold a grudge about who might be making me upset at the time. Then there are the people who will tell it to me straight, and I know they are telling me straight! Some are good listeners, and in turn just let me ramble on and on. Then depending on the situation I call whoever will understand what I am going threw the most. The one's I call when I am having mommy trouble. O the list could go on!! (I am a people person....can you tell??)
So to all of those in my life who I can call, I thank you!! You help me out more then words can say, and more! Thank you for listening, talking me threw it, and just picking up the other end of the phone!!
The other day I had a bad time, and in it I was thinking, who can I call to make myself feel a little better. Then I realized I have my certain peeps, for certain times, and moods!!
There are the friends I call who will listen to anything and never judge or hold a grudge about who might be making me upset at the time. Then there are the people who will tell it to me straight, and I know they are telling me straight! Some are good listeners, and in turn just let me ramble on and on. Then depending on the situation I call whoever will understand what I am going threw the most. The one's I call when I am having mommy trouble. O the list could go on!! (I am a people person....can you tell??)
So to all of those in my life who I can call, I thank you!! You help me out more then words can say, and more! Thank you for listening, talking me threw it, and just picking up the other end of the phone!!
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